Life's too short

So, I went to a funeral of someone I didn’t know.

Don’t worry, I don’t just gate crash funerals, it was the husband of someone I work with. I won’t go into more details than that.

I admit, I didn’t know how my mind would process this information as I have been experiencing existential crisis this year while in the process of moving house. Regular readers will know of my life long death anxiety. What the day did tell me was that life is too short to worry, so go and do the things you enjoy.

For example, I recently found out that one of my favourite bands, ONE OK ROCK, are coming all the way from Japan to play three UK shows and one is in London. Now, this isn’t too far away and I could either make it there and back in one night or stay over in London, but the logistics were stressing me out. After realising that this wasn’t important and I’d figure it all out, I went ahead and booked those tickets.

I normally stress about going on holiday too. No idea why. This time I’m going to relax and enjoy it. The whole thing should be a right laugh. We’ve been there before so we know what it is like in the hotel and the local area.


Basically, I don’t want to let stupid anxiety stop me living my life and doing the things I want to do. If I want to travel to a gig then I will. If I want to go on holiday I will. I’m going to do the normal things people do and live a life without regret.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Fans, fanfiction and the obsession with yaoi!

Image
First up I hear some of you asking what Yaoi even is. From the Japanese it roughly translates as 'boys love' and it is a genre particularly popular with women, which is why I chose to use it for this piece. Why is yaoi familiar? If you have spent any time on the internet you will be aware of this concept. Yaoi, or 'boys love', is particularly popular on micro-blogging sites like tumblr or pinterest where fans (usually female) create posts out of photos, gifs or imagined conversation text posts that put their two favourite male characters together. These posts range from the innocent flirting between two characters to romantic gestures to full-on hardcore sex! Now, I fully acknowledge that there is a section of fanfiction about imagining yourself with your favourite character, but this blog essay will concentrate on the overtly homosexual version of fanfiction. Another popular form is the aforementioned 'fanfiction' where two people or characters are throw...
Read more

We will get what we deserve

So it turns out that there is still roughly 40% of the population that would still vote Tory in the next General Election.  This comes after massive public spending cuts (more of which in a moment), scandal (by more than one politician) and the dodgy News International connections that have come in light of the phone hacking scandal. This week alone we were given the perfect headline "Cameron rode Rebekah Brooks' Horse" (truncate it and have some laughs).  Incidentally I would like to thank my very good friend Dan for the following:  http://hasdavidcameron.com/  Have a good LOL at that!  This shows the deep connection between the staff of NI and surely shows that the media has had (and I suspect still does have) a lot more sway in politics than I would care to have.  Who is influencing who?  We have surely come to an age where politicians would rather court the press than the public as it is the press that tell the public what to believe.  ...
Read more

First time buyer - timeline and advice

Having just bought our first house I can tell you it can be confusing if you don't know when certain things need to happen. How can you put an offer in if you don't have a mortgage? How do you know how much mortgage you need if you don't have an offer accepted? When do you pay and how does it all work? Here is how we did it and this worked really well. Save Get your deposit sorted. House prices change all the time but keep your eye on costs and build up your deposit. I had 10% saved up and used that alongside mortgage calculators (see links in below item) to work out what we could borrow and afford to pay each month. This works the other way too and they can help you work out how much you need for a deposit. There are schemes which require only a 5% deposit ( Help to Buy ) but it is advisable to save up before approaching this scheme too. Remember, you will have to afford mortgage payments and payments to the provider too. Also bear in mind additional costs such as ...
Read more